There are so many things in our everyday life we cannot control. Negative mindsets and comments can come on a daily basis from family members, friends, and coworkers. These words can be very rough especially if you are dealing with your own insecurities. A lot of times you cannot control what other people do and how they feel about you. But you can control your thought process and how you choose to feel about it. Do everything you can to look at the good in your life and magnify that each and every day making everyday a good day. At the end of the day, you want to please God, not man anyway.
The truth is, if you are always trying to please people, you will never truly please God. In the Bible, the Apostle Paul said in Galatians 1:10, “For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.” In order to truly be servants of Christ, we have to learn how to be okay with disapproval from people. This can be difficult, but it is possible to achieve when your love for God is stronger than your love to be accepted by people.